Anxious Attachment

Anxious Attachment

Intimacy in a relationship can be a mixed blessing. When things are going well, we are happy to be close. We feel safe and secure in each other’s arms. But into every life some rain must fall. Eventually, we face some problems that seem unsolvable and the arguments...
Secure Attachment

Secure Attachment

There are several different types of “attachment styles” in a relationship.  One type is called Secure Attachment, but before we delve into that, first lets review the definition for intimacy. While there are many definitions for intimacy, many marriage...
Stress Good for Marriage?

Stress Good for Marriage?

Stressed out people are usually tired, cranky, and busy. Stressful situations take precious time away from building our relationship and handling issues as they arise. Stress also reduces our sex drive. How can that be good for a marriage? As with many things, it all...
Art of Apology

Art of Apology

A heartfelt apology is the most powerful way to restore a relationship when there has been an injury or breach. If handled badly or offered in the wrong spirit, however, an apology is sure to cause more harm than good. Sadly, even well-intended apologies can make...
Tools for a Great Relationship

Tools for a Great Relationship

Do you ever wonder how your relationship is doing? Is so, you’re like many couples who want to make sure they are on the right track and free from problems that could turn into fatal flaws down the road.  It’s actually pretty easy to get valid, detailed feedback...
10 Years and 10 Million

10 Years and 10 Million

“Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake.” Imagine you are given 10 Million dollars, but you have only 10 years to live. List what you would want to do, be, or have. Then, circle the 10 items you would miss most if they never happened. It’s...