Be A Great Lover

Be A Great Lover

Here are Five Keys to being a Great Lover: Listen. Think about how you listen. Most people listen just enough to construct a reply. If you want to be a great LOVER, then listen with all your heart. This means developing an interested, accepting attitude. You don’t...
Marriage Counseling

Marriage Counseling

If you want marriage counseling but your partner doesn’t want to go, here are 10 things to say to get them to try it. 1. “Just come with me for one session and see what you think.” Make sure your partner knows you will understand if, after one session, they don’t want...
Conversational Intimacy

Conversational Intimacy

Intimacy is a difficult thing to define. Most people believe it includes a willingness to disclose one’s true thoughts, feelings, wishes, and fears. If you know how to make conversations more intimate, you can make your emotional connection deeper and your...
Anxious Attachment

Anxious Attachment

Intimacy in a relationship can be a mixed blessing. When things are going well, we are happy to be close. We feel safe and secure in each other’s arms. But into every life some rain must fall. Eventually, we face some problems that seem unsolvable and the arguments...
Secure Attachment

Secure Attachment

There are several different types of “attachment styles” in a relationship.  One type is called Secure Attachment, but before we delve into that, first lets review the definition for intimacy. While there are many definitions for intimacy, many marriage...